The Scandalous Suicide of Hollywood’s Carole Landis

Carole LandisCarole Landis is known primarily as the bosomy blonde movie star who offed herself over Rex Harrison. Of all the schmucks who’ve driven ladies to leap, the idea of killing yourself over a tool like “Sexy Rexy” seems especially senseless. But in Hollywood’s Golden Years one of filmdom’s most glamorous and popular stars did indeed end her life over that Doolittle douche.

Today not many people have heard of Carole Landis, but her story is one of Hollywood’s most fascinating tales, with more twists and turns than her enviable curves.

Carole’s story begins in Midwestern Gothic luridness with a steady stream of heartbreaking details that make you periodically have to stop reading and go, “Seriously?!”, then sigh and warily dip in for more.

She was born Frances Ridste on New Year’s Day in 1919 in the aptly named burg of Fairchild, Wisconsin, to a farmer’s daughter and a “drifting railroad mechanic” who’d already abandoned the family before little Carole came along. (The “drifting railroad mechanic” wasn’t a stable family man? Quelle surprise!) Her mother was no saint either; Charles Fenner, her second husband, and the man with whom she’d been having an adulterous affair, was most likely Landis’s biological father. The youngest of five children, two of whom died in childhood, her early years were filled with poverty and sexual abuse.

Carole was such a beautiful infant she earned the nickname “Baby Doll”. According to family sources, she was sexually molested by a relative for much of her childhood. Given young Baby Doll’s shitty start in life, it’s no surprise that Carole 1) seemed much older than her years, and 2) was interested in being in show biz. Little Carole covered her walls with photos cut from magazines of movie stars like Mary Astor and Clark Gable. At age nine, little Carole ran up on stage during a local talent show and started to sing. Using make-up tricks to hide her age, she started entering beauty pageants at the tender age of twelve!  (She won a pair of silk stockings and an electric heater. Who says beauty can’t buy you anything?)

In high school Landis often skipped class —  “boy crazy ” was the general consensus. “I always seemed so much older than the other kids my age,” said Carole, “They seemed like tots.”

 She was ahead of her classmates and ahead of her time. As a teenager she tried to form an all female football team at school, but the principal stopped her because it was “unladylike”. It’s not surprising that Carole dropped out of high school at 15 to get her whole show biz thing underway. She worked as a hula dancer in a San Francisco nightclub, she sang with a dance band, and she worked at a hamburger stand, a department store, a movie theater. She dyed her hair blonde and changed her name to “Carole Landis” after her favorite actress, Carole Lombard. She eventually saved up $100 and hightailed it to Hollywood.

The Ping Girl
The Ping Girl

Her 1937 film debut was as an extra in the original film version of  A Star Is Born. Next she found herself in various horse operas and an untold number of cheesecake photos. Eventually her cheesecakery paid off big; in 1940 studio head Hal Roach cast her as a scantily-clad cave girl in the original film version of One Million B.C.. Just as it would for Raquel Welch a quarter-century later, the movie made Landis a star. Soon, just as Clara Bow had been dubbed the “It Girl” and Ann Sheridan was crowned the “Oomph Girl”, publicists gave Carole the title the “Ping Girl.”

The Ping Girl moniker was attributed to a take-off on the popular motor oil ad at the time that claimed to take the ‘ping’ out of an engine and “make it purr”.  

 

Some claimed it was a mash-up of PIN-up Girl. Some say it alludes to Carole’s erection-generating abilities, as in “I saw her and –ping!”  Miss Hard-On of 1940 may have very well been aware of this etymology; once in an interview Landis said ‘ping’ was a term in Hollywood slang, but neglected to mention for what.

Most interesting to me about the whole “Ping Girl” thing was how brilliantly Carole (or possibly her PR folks) leveraged being against the sobriquet:

“I want a fair chance to prove myself something more than a curvaceous cutie. I want to get out of bathing suits and into something more substantial. Unfortunately the publicity department of my studio does not agree. They have conceived the brilliant idea of selling me to the public as ‘the Ping Girl’. This flash of genius is to be illustrated with a series of pictures out of their files, suggestive of anything but acting talent.”

Still, Landis was well aware that being pin-uppity had been her ticket to the big time:

“Leg art did the trick — naughty leg art, if you happen to look at it in that light. When the boys needed someone to pose in a skin-tight white bathing suit, go sleigh riding in shorts, or climb a ladder in a skirt, they’d yell, ‘Get Landis!’ That made everybody happy except, maybe, the goody-goods and the bluenoses, and I suspect they took a second peek now and then.”

Like a lot of women, Carole had a lot of ambivalence about using her assets to get ahead.  She posed for cheesecake photos by the thousands, but then resented all the attention they garnered.

 “Heaven knows I want people to think I have sex appeal. But I also want to think I have something besides sex appeal.”

God knows Carole was a smart cookie in every sense of the word. She loved to read, and was a fan of Ernest Hemingway, Noel Coward, and W. Somerset Maugham. (Hemingway gifted her with a set of personally autographed books.) But it was Landis’s more physical charms that got her places, both on and off-screen. She scored a contract with Twentieth-Century Fox, and was involved with studio head Darryl Zanuck, though it’s not entirely clear to me which came first, the chicken or the egg. She was in a series of successful films, playing second fiddle to Betty Grable in I Wake Up Screaming and Moon Over Miami. But she lost a pivotal role that ended up thrusting Rita Hayworth into stardom in the soapy bullfighter pic, Blood and Sand — very likely because she ended her affair with Zanuck. In fact, her ditching Darryl got her relegated to B pictures at the studio from then on.

When World War II came along, Carole traveled more than 125,000 miles, spending more time visiting troops than any other actress.

Carole Landis 1940Landis dedicated herself to the war effort, taking time off from her career to tour the country selling war bonds and entertain soldiers all over the world — Australia, Brazil, Algeria, Bermuda, Scotland, England, New Guinea, Ireland, Guam, and New Zealand! She sang and jitterbugged with the boys, spent time visiting wounded soldiers, and wrote hundreds of letters to their families. Jack Benny said, “You soon forgot she was Carole Landis, the sex symbol, the Hollywood star, because she was a real human being and had a warm heart that spilled over with kindness.”

In conjunction with her ability to make Privates’ parts go ‘ping’, this no doubt added to her pin-up popularity with servicemen.

 During a two-month tour of the South Pacific, Carole contracted malaria and amoebic dysentery. She almost died, and was hospitalized for weeks, never fully recovering from her illnesses.  Landis became an Air Raid Warden, a commander in the Aerial Nurses Corps, and an honorary Colonel in the American Legion. Our girl even got her pilot’s license and eventually flew for the Civilian Air Patrol! She went on to write several newspaper and magazine articles about her experiences during the war, culminating in the 1944 book (later made into a movie), Four Jills in a Jeep.

 She was quite the trooper, but despite the Ping and pin-up, Carole never made it to the top. The closest she ever got to an Oscar is when, as a presenter at the 1941 ceremony, she caused a commotion when the slip fell out of her dress. (I told you she was a smart cookie.) She did make it to Broadway however, working with Jacqueline Susann in the 1945 musical fittingly titled, A Lady Says Yes. (In fact, Jacqueline and Carole said yes to Sappho; the two were lovers. In fact, the character of Jennifer North in Jacqueline Susann’s infamous 1966 novel Valley Of The Dolls was based on our Baby Doll.)

Ping!
Ping!

“Let me tell you this: Every girl in the world wants to find the right man, someone who is sympathetic and understanding and helpful and strong, someone she can love madly. Actresses are no exception; the glamour and the tinsel, the fame and the money mean very little if there is hurt in the heart.”

Carole just never got a break on the romantic front. Abandoned by both her stepfather and father, she spent most of her life desperately searching for a daddy. The “boy crazy” teen grew up to be crazy when it came to men. (And I guess women; let’s not forget Ms. Susann.) In 1934, 15-year-old Landis married her 19-year-old neighbor, Irving Wheeler; the marriage was annulled a month later but after six months they remarried.  But, they were divorced less than four years later when Irving named infamous director-choreographer Busby Berkeley in an alienation of affections lawsuit. Busby ended up proposing to Carole a year later, then broke it off. She went on marry “yacht broker” Willis Hunt, Jr. but ended up leaving him after 2 months. (She said he was “sarcastic”. I shudder to think what shitty behavior came under that seemingly innocuous umbrella.) While touring for the troops, she met and married Army Air Corps Captain Thomas Wallace in London, divorcing him a couple of years later. In 1945, Landis married the extraordinarily named Broadway producer W. Horace Schmidlapp, but this marriage also only lasted a few years.

“Glamour girls are suckers! You might rightly hail me, ‘Hi Sucker!’ because, as the nicks on a gun indicate how many men a killer has got, nicks on the heart of a glamour girl indicate how many men she didn’t get! There is very little I can do about it, either. Being a glamour girl doesn’t help any. I can only do what other girls do, cry my eyes out at night, hope and pray, pretend I don’t care, do the best acting job of my career for the benefit of friends and family, for the sake of my own pride.”

A psychic once warned Carole that she “must beware of emotional entanglements with men you can’t entirely possess.” If only she’d heeded that warning.

You are probably most aware of actor Rex Harrison for his roles in My Fair Lady, Cleopatra and Dr. Doolittle.  He came to Hollywood in the mid-forties and was almost immediately dubbed “Sexy Rexy” due to his Carole Landis in color philandering ways and the apparent hotness that made the fair ladies drop like flies. Sadly, one of those ladies was our poor Baby Doll. Married at the time to his second wife, actress Lilli Palmer, Rex broke Carole’s heart when he wouldn’t get a divorce. (Of his many marriages,Harrison said, “Wives are like gilt-edged stocks. The more you have, the greater your dividends.”)

Someone commits suicide every 14 minutes; killing oneself is not uncommon. There are a lot of reasons people commit suicide, but for me it really boils down to one: a painful hopelessness that things won’t get better. Maybe that’s why it seems particularly tragic when someone with so much to give and look forward to snuffs out her life. It’s so final. But the pain of heartache and loss can be hard to bear, and it can make sad and desperate girls do sad and desperate things.

Born on New Year’s Day, Carole died on Independence Day, 1948. She was only 29. She spent her final night in this Earth with Dr. Douchebag, and the next day he was the one to discover her dead body on the bathroom floor.  Harrison waited several hours before he called a doctor and the police. When the police arrived he insisted he was just friends with Carole. According to some sources, Landis left two suicide notes, one for her mother and the second for Harrison who instructed his lawyers to destroy it. (During a coroner’s inquest, Harrison denied knowing of any motive for her suicide and of the existence of a second suicide note.)

Rex found Carole's body in the bathroom.
Rex found Carole’s body in the bathroom.

Carole was interred in Hollywood’s Forest Lawn Cemetery. The stars at her funeral included Van Johnson, Cesar Romero, Pat O’Brien, Rex Harrison, and his wife.

Whenever I’m tempted to look fondly on the parade of urbane and rakish rats that serially seduce girls on and off-the screen (I’m looking at you, Hugh Grant), Carole’s story reminds me of the often tragic consequences of their charm.

I confess, as supercilious misogynist dicks go, I do love me some Henry Higgins. But aside from the fact that he punched Frank Sinatra in the face and once remarked that The Sound of Music was “The only time I’ve ever rooted for the Nazis”, there’s little to recommend Mr. Harrison. (Sometime look up how he left wife Lilli to hang with Kay Kendall, expecting to get back with Lilli after Kay passed away from cancer. Lilli wasn’t into it.)

Landis’s official web site — run by my pal, and Carole’s great niece, Elizabeth Ann — questions the events of Landis’s death and the coroner’s ruling of suicide. The Landis family is convinced that Rex Harrison murdered her to avoid scandal surrounding the affair they’d been having. “Aunt Carole’s death has haunted my family for 62 years, and knowing Rex Harrison never paid for what he did only makes it worse,” explains Elizabeth Ann.  “We may never know the truth about her death but we do know that the official version just doesn’t make sense.”

As far as I’m concerned, he’s the culprit either way.

I just hope Carole Landis is somewhere, her warmth, feisty spirit, and erection-impelling ways intact.  To paraphrase the classic 40s refrain, “And the Angels Ping…”

Carole Landis

Dixie Laite - Dame Town Writer

Author: Dixie Laite

I'm Sarah "Dixie" Laite -- a writer and branding consultant in New York City. I love classic movies, animals, flea markets, and "Law & Order" re-runs. I live with my husband, 2 dogs and 5 parrots in midtown Manhattan.All my life I've been obsessed with figuring out how to navigate life as a woman. There are endless books, TV shows, gurus, guys, movies and magazines out there to guide you. But now that I'm closing in on 60, I've noticed that the old rules don't apply, and most of the role models aren't old enough.I'm older now. I know more and I weigh more. I want to be inspired and I want to inspire. Let's get a handle on this shit and figure it out together.

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  • Thank you Dixie for writing such an amazing tribute to Carole! She was such a beautiful person and she had a huge heart. It is a real tragedy she never found any happiness but it’s wonderful that people are still discovering her.

    • You know words fail me when it comes to trying to describe how much talent and beauty she had.I think a Movie about her would be so very Interesting! And you know who would be perfect for the part, Vera Formiga , from”Bates Motel” I think it would be a sensational movie!

  • – Carole was my all time favorite actress. – I dyed my hair blonde and tried to be like her. – She answered my fan letters. – I loved her dearly and will never forget seeing the newspaper with the photo of her on the floor. It broke my heart.

  • A sad story which I have read about before. It is tragic, to say the least, and I remember reading of her death when I was just a little kid. I can’t tell you why I remembered it or why it affected me but somehow it did, probably because of her youth and fame and the inexplicable act of sucide. For many years I never thought of it again until the late ’70’s when I came across a biography of the life of Rex Harrison and the Landis death was referred to from Harrison’s perspective. As a professional artist I created a portrait of Carole and contacted the person who created Carole’s website. Upon seeing the finished portrait she immediately ordered a print and published it on the site for other fans to see. It was very gratifying to hear of the responses of fans. I hope the unanswered questions regarding Carole’s death will ultimately be made known.

  • Carole seems to have been a really wonderful lady. I was not aware of this amazing lady until I stumbled upon one of her movies.
    I found her on TCM one day, (which I hope will dedicate a day to her, she deserves it.)and she now has a place in my heart. When I read her story, it made me very sad to think that she took her own life over such a rotten human being as Rex Harrison. He wasn’t worth it; on any level. Poor Carole, so much heart, & soul to give, and no one to return it. She overcame so many challenges in her life that would have knocked down a lesser person. All the miles she logged during WWII was a testament to her big heart. It’s too bad she never found Mr. Right. I’m sure she would have been a very loving partner.
    I hope that you found peace, sweet lady. Rest easy knowing that there are still people out there who love you, for being you.

    • A very beautiful commentary on Carol Landis, where you say it all… May she rest in peace and be remembered. God’s blessings on her, and you for your wonderful Tribute that she so deserves.

  • Thank you for a great tribute to a beautiful and talented actress , gone too soon. At 65 I have returned to University to study my life-long passion, film history. Your writing shows compassionate insight into the tragic life of this woman.

    • Deb, thank you so much for the kind words! And a big juuuuicy thanks for going into film history! We need more people like YOU! You are such an inspiration! Would you like to write a guest blog post on your favorite movie dame?

    • Dear Deb…loved what you wrote and that you wrote about Carol Landis…and also to Roger the poster, who gave her a beatufiful commendation/tribute;; I salute you both.

      • I guess I put the wrong name of Deb…when it is Dixie who wrote the story…Great story Dixie, though sad, and good luck to you Deb…you will find some to write about…maybe with the similarities and differences…People alsways like a good story…and a good writer always puts out a good story.

        • IMHO…it is tremendously tragic to minimize one’s own life for what one lived through that enormously damaged the faith in themself to not want to go on living.

  • I loved Rachel Roberts, but she was a complicated bundle of insecurities and unhappiness, and her suicide happened 9 years after her divorce from Sexy Rexy. Yes, there are reports that she attempted to win him back shortly before she ended her life, but I think it’s unfair to say that Rachel Roberts killed herself over Rex Harrison. I think it might be more accurate to observe that certain vibrant but emotionally fragile women seem to be attracted to narcissistic pricks like Rex Harrison.

    • Meg, that is so very insightful, and so sadly true. Ultimately, we’re responsible for our own choices, craziness, and blindnesses. Giving up hope and life for a man is always a tragic mistake, and heartbreaking no matter how you like at it.

  • I am sure that Rex Harrison was in that house longer than his version of his whereabouts that night.. I. believe that he wanted Carole dead and let it happen to a poor vulnerable woman who needed someone at the time when she was troubled…. I read Eric Ganns book and I dont agree with his official version. Is there anything I can do to help in getting the DV D ”Cadet Girl”please let me know I went to UCLA. film archive to. Inquired about getting it but I couldn’t get it…

  • Thank you for such a detailed, amazing biography of Carole! I have been a fan of Miss Landis for a long time. A short, tragic life lived by a beautiful woman. Rex Harrison was such a cruel human and didn’t deserve all that fame.

  • I love “Four Jills And A Jeep” ~ didnt know Landis had written it. She was arrestingly lovely, esoecially with natural dark hair, and I’m sorry she ever met that poisonous prick Rex. Lily Palmer’s autobio “Change Lobsters and Dance” says a lot

  • I am a World War II re-enactor and I have considered myself a fan of 1930s-1950s films since I was 12. Nevertheless, having been born at the end of 1966 I hadn’t heard of Carole until 2013 when I first saw Four Jills and a Jeep as part of a project that I’ve been working on which involves listing, watching, and reviewing every film ever made about the European Theater of Operations in WWII (except I’ve given up on Lithuanian films, long story). I’m telling you, I fell in love when I saw that film, and that’s saying something, because although I’m blonde myself, I’ve never usually cared for blondes. Olivia DeHavilland, Hedy Lamar, and Loretta Young are typically my type. After I watched the film the first time I looked up Carole Landis on the internet to see who this vision was, and try to figure out why I hadn’t heard of her. I was even more impressed when I learned that the film was a true story! I was literally deeply saddened to learn that she (officially) committed suicide at 29. I couldn’t believe it. She seemed to radiate class and warmth on the screen. I have now seen all of the Carole Landis films that Netflix has. Interestingly, I remember watching a couple of Topper films when I was 12 and 13 growing up in Pasadena, CA, but Carole didn’t make an impression on me then, probably because she was so old. LOL

    As a re-enactor, when I put on my 1943 paratrooper uniform and attend veterans benefits and the like, with Big Band music playing and talking with the men and women that were in the prime of their lives in the 1940s, I always imagine myself living during that time and actually being the character that I portray. Since becoming a fan of Carole I often imagine myself meeting her as a soldier the way Tommy Wallace did, but just loving her for who she is, letting her have her career, and keeping her safe from the bad romances that ultimately ended her life.

    Thanks for an excellent article on her life. It’s nice to learn some new things about her.

      • It’s my pleasure, and I was honored to have served, but I probably should clarify: As a re-enactor I portray a paratrooper, but when I was in the Army for real, I was a radio repairer. I was just one of those that helped the real heroes get the job done. 🙂

  • That was so sad. I’ve always had an appreciation for Carole. I am now going to sell my Rex Harrison book that I have. WHAT A PRICK!! I enjoyed the way you write. It’s not what you say, as they say, it’s how you say it. We have that in common. I’ll see you on Instagram!!

  • What a real shame about her life. I wish women were taught that men are not the most compelling goal in life. I wish parents taught their daughters that having a love affair with oneself, growing ones soul and giving to oneself, animals and others is what satisfies. Men are not the prize, only the right one can be a complement

  • News to me! I’d looked her up after watching “It Happened in Flatbush.” Such a cutie! And I loved her deep, melodic voice.
    Gee, awful lot of sadness packed into 29 years.

  • Great piece, as usual. My favorite bit: “The “drifting railroad mechanic” wasn’t a stable family man? Quelle surprise!”

  • This is all so sad … so many women and men to a lesser extent get used up in Hollywood . From silents to now. Always , a lawyer like Jerry Geisler there to save their bacon . Or studio fixers . I still wonder about Paul Bern , and then Harlow dying so young . The Lana scandal , although I do believe daughter did it out of fear for mother. You need an entire storage warehouse to hide Hollywood’s skeletons , not even a movie star’s walk in closet could do it … or MGM’s wardrobe department for that matter !! Thank you for article .. I don’t think people realize how she served the troops , or how often she performed on command performance.

  • I knew of Carole Landis from my Mom. As a kid, when I would look through her movie scrapbooks, I always stopped on the pages of Carole Landis. Something about her – not just her beauty, but a face with deep soul-searching. During my Mom’s final years and illness, we watched Carole’s movies and dug out the old scrapbooks.
    The pain of hopelessness is a deep sadness for which people seek suicide. My heart is heavy and goes out to many who, I pray, have the ability to seek guidance and help – and for the loss of Carole who at 29 had a full life waiting for her.
    It has been more than a pleasure to find your website, as well as the tribute and site of Carole’s niece Tammy and friend Elizabeth. Thank you for keeping this beautiful and talented young woman alive in so many ways.

    • Wow Bailey, thank you so much! You made my day! I would never have known Carole Landis was so well-loved and remembered had I not written this post. It’s been truly eye-opening. Tell me, are there any others you’d like to see profiled? xo

      • I guess I would have to say actress Loretta Young who was date raped by Clark Gable. She never told anyone, including the child who was born, until many years later. When she became pregnant, she apparently was afraid that the studio would demand that she have an abortion.
        Whoever you are profiling, though, I will definitely enjoy the reading and keep track of your site!

  • Loretta and Clark’s relationship was consensual. In fact, he would visit his daughter, Judy, from time to time. Judy and everyone was told she was adopted. But she look d so much like Loretta few were fooled. (Plus poor Judy had Clark’s ears)

  • Dear Dixie,
    Thank you for the info and tribute to Carol Landis. I’ve been a film noir buff for many years and learned about her after watching “I Wake Up Screming” and have developed a fascination regarding her life. She reminds me of a Marilyn Monroe type character. It’s even more tragic how Hollywood and men treated these gems. And I totally agree…dying over a douche bag like Harrison. She had it all.
    Take cre

  • Thanks for you’re story about this poor actress.i love old movies.its sad.the life’s some of the Wemon had., The money .the fame and All Alone.ti suffer.

  • Thanks for writing a tribute to Carole Landis..I’m so sad her end came like that. A candle lit so brightly then gone for good. I always wondered about how she was found. By the sink curled up..& very nicely dressed up.. What’s with that?

  • I’m interested to know if there’s any info out there about Carole Landis having been under the care of Dr. Fred Pobirs? My mother was under Pobirs “care” for many years; so were Judy Garland and Marilyn Monroe. My mother suffered a similar, tragic fate to all three of those women. My grandfather was a well-known producer and studio head. Thanks in advance.

  • I’m sorry I clicked on this website’s url. Your incredible insensitivity to a woman’s difficult and challenging childhood is appalling.

    Hardly edgy and cool. Being crass and disrespectful is childish.

  • Thank you for featuring actress Carole Landis. I decided to look her up after seeing her in the Turner Classic Movie, Turnabout. I’m also writing partly because a coworker lost her young daughter also to suicide. It is so so tragic and difficult to understand- as humans we try but can’t; really. We can only imagine the pain for the person and the Moms, Dads and sisters/brothers they leave behind.
    It is worthwhile to point out the importance in this day and age of teaching self esteem, self love at as early an age. Now, more, we see the importance of teaching kids the “wrongness” of sexual abuse. It bears emphasizing that we as humans gravitate towards wanting to watch beautiful people entertain us. And we need to see this for what beauty is and is not. Being beautiful is lucky and good but should not be the reason why we like something or someone, and we need to be aware of that tendency in ourselves. Be a cheerleader, a model, but remember not to let strictly looks, define us, right? I love watching classic movies, and seeing into times when my parents had been young, but I think that maybe people and the industry was more superficial. We women need to keep evolving and then be less subject to the “Rex’s” of the world. And we’re moving towards that thankfully, and yet we still need to concentrate on that. Still, we need to keep open to learning anything we can do to understand and reach out to those who are so hurting and isolated.

  • I just discovered Carole Landis for the first time today. I’m watching her on TCM. They are having a marathon of her movies as a Birthday tribute. She is one of the most beautiful Women I have ever seen. This was a great article by you. I agree with you that Rex Harrison is/was a piece of Shit .

      • How about Thelma Dodd? She also had a sad (unsolved) end. Every day I pass by a structure on Pacific Coast Highway in Malibu which used to be a nightclub that she partly owned and where she was found dead from asphyxiation in her car which was still running in the garage. I think it was ruled to be a suicide but there were too many discrepancies. I don’t know all the details but it’s a very interesting story.

  • I knew her name but didnt know much about her. TCM just showed a bunch of her films since 1/1/2019 is her 100th birthday. What a shame she died so young.

  • Dear Dixie
    Thank you for your good heart about a lovely lady I just “met” in film. It is her birthday, it seems. Attractive, but more- a true soul of loving others and giving her heart to the soldiers, writing them letters- Now I love her forever, and respect her. Surrounded by movie-world people, she would of course run into lots of rats looking only at her physical appearance,- heartless ones she couldn’t seem to apply those smarts to! (charming can be pretty low…)
    I hope her true heart is happy now and forever, for being True Blue, and I hope she enjoyed lots of stuff here as well. Going back to heaven early isn’t all bad perhaps, we are the losers not her! (-taking the hopeful view- she never had to grow old, losing health and beauty- maybe she was “too good for this world”)
    I see your piece is years old, so I’m glad it is still wise-ing us up on a jewel of goodness, showing us that a beauty of heart can be in a dreamy body, doing good works for others. Guys and gals both lose their sense over romance a lot! I could kill anyone who molests a child, too bad “God” doesn’t.
    I like your writing a lot- your gritty realism does not hide your good heart and good wishes- ignore that jerk who does’t get it.
    I would read anything you write on famous people’s Real lives, since you seem to be able to cut through to the real facts, as you did with Loretta and Clark.
    Thanks for expanding and deepening my heart a little with your loving view of a beautiful lady.
    Phil

  • It is hardly difficult to figure out…you’re mean. Plain and simple. I guess you think you are being clever with your article but nooooo, it’s mean! It seemed Carol wanted to escape the “Ping,” but you continue to highlight it throughout the article.

    • Hey Ann, when you grow up you’ll understand that “Ping” is a marketable commodity that not too many people are lucky enough to own. Carole had it and used it, Marilyn had it, Rita Hayworth had it, Jean Russell had it, Ava Gardner had it and a multitude of other beautiful buxom women who were not apologizing for their sex appeal. I truly doubt you’ve figured anything out. Plain and simple.

  • Ann, I’m not clear how I’m being mean. I have only love and sympathy for Carole Landis, and have received nothing but good comments from other readers, Carole fans and even members of Carole’s family. You’ll be happy to know you’ve read something into the article that’s not there and can heave a sigh of relief that no one was being mean to Carole.

  • Dixie, I just seen a TCM 1942 movie with Carole Landis,”A wonderful Crime”. First time I actually saw her. What a tragedy! Such a beautiful woman. She could act too. And a great human being with her war effort. I was curious. What was her cause of death? And why would Rex’s wife attend her funeral? Did she have children?

  • Hi Dixie,
    I really enjoyed reading your post about Carole Landis, she was another tragic beauty like Marilyn Monroe used and abused by men then tossed dumped after they took what hey needed from her. I agree with your philosophy on what makes a “Dame”. I’ve always thought of myself as one. No need for faux modesty, always know your worth and use it to your best advantage. My definition of a dame is one part chutzpah, one part feminine wile and one part self assuredness. I recently had a successful gentleman who rented my Palm Springs house ask me how I accumulated my high-end properties, I leaned over and whispered “balls”. He looked at me as though I had just kicked him in his. Most men still don’t understand that a successful woman is twice the man he is. I’ll be 62 this August but I feel sexier, happier and more interesting and vibrant now than I did at 30. It could also be because I’ve been enjoying the last ten years with the love of my life who happens to be 24 years younger. After an abusive marriage, I was able to raise two gorgeous, intelligent worldly sons who love and respect women, I took care of a mother who had a debilitating stroke, a father with severe mental damage and for the last nine years, a younger sister with MS whose husband left her for another woman. I have many female friends yet few qualify as dames. Most are not in complete control of their lives and many live with disinterested zombies instead of adoring lovers.because they don’t truly believe they’re worthy of being adored. A dame knows she’s worthy and demands adoration and respect. As you said, we know more, weigh more (and don’t give a shit), and have come to realize that you get out of life what you settle for. Dames don’t settle for BS.

  • I only recently discovered Carol Landis through her delightful film A Gentleman at Heart – a wonderfully funny comedy. I was shocked to read that she died so young. Your article is interesting but there doesn’t seem to be much of a mystery about her death – she had attempted suicide several times before and was clearly a susceptible person, probably struggling with depression, and she wrote a suicide note to her mother, which makes it quite difficult to pass it off as murder.

    • Louise I completely agree. She was wonderful AND I suspect her choices and the realization to enter an impossible relationship was the last straw in her battle with depression and I think self esteem.

  • Thank you so much for this rather intersting, but so true tribute to my cousin. It’s so heart warming that Carole is still remembered today. I remember my mother and aunt speaking of her and the times my mother visited hers. I was much to young to remember what was said, and maybe good reason. I was born 6 yrs after her passing, so I missed all the hoopla. It’s a great place we live in today to be able to relive some of those times through her movies. I agree with the fact that she did not commit suicide for reasons only her family can undetstand. Thank you agsin.
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  • You’re writing lacks credibility with your use of nasty nicknames and your own spin on someone’s character. It makes you sound like a Louella Parsons or a Hedda Hopper Gossipy and silly. You don’t know what Ms Landis or Mr Harrison were either feeling or thinking.If Mr Harrison lived his life treating women badly its awful and disappointing. Im a big fan of his Henry Higgins if he exhibited this behavior its shameful. For Ms Landis who was a very talented lovely actress it is so sad that she allowed herself to be treated that way and that she wasnt strong enough to walk away and get help. She had a full life to live and its a shame she didn’t choose life. Stick to the facts when writing. Don’t throw around nicknames and judgments like trump

    • PS: I just watched One Million BC. So I found this article looking her up. She sounded so wonderful. I enjoyed the nicknames and what the hell does any of this have to do with politics… Not a question.

  • I loved your article on CAROLE LANDIS, your quite apt descriptions on Rex Puke abs, mostly ~ your bio. I’m in Philadelphia, PA ~ single, childless, with 1 lovely kitty [2 or more just LABELS me a spinster!!!] and a disability that has me hoping for a different type of “crisis” that will give the pain reliever MURDERERS [like hypocrite, Samantha B.] the KARMA that only the truly IGNORANT deserve.

    This is some CRAZY world we live in today! Carole took THE WRONG WAY OUT ~ but, she could have been just another grabbed “PING” blocker! OY!

    BE HAPPY ~ with love & SHALOM 🕊

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  • I totally believe she was murdered by Rex . I have read the description of what happened & it totally makes sense that he murdered her to keep his affair quiet. It’s so unfair that he was able to persuade the coroner & the Police to believe his lies of what happened that night, but I hope there is some comfort in the fact that I’m sure many people & fans believe he was guilty of this crime.

  • I totally believe she was murdered by Rex . I have read the description of what happened & it totally makes sense that he murdered her to keep his affair quiet. It’s so unfair that he was able to persuade the coroner & the Police to believe his lies of what happened that night, but I hope there is some comfort in the fact that I’m sure many people & fans believe he was guilty of this crime.

  • I can’t believe Rex Harrison didn’t report Carole’s apparent overdose for hours. Someone you were supposed to love and you leave her laying there without getting help. All of the traveling she did entertaining the troops during the war was a testament to the kind of person she was. Too bad that she couldn’t find happiness.